Why Are You Always Getting So Defensive?

 

by Glenn Shepard

January 19, 2010

 

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Dear Glenn,   

I've been following your work for years now and am wondering what your thoughts are on older employees. While they may not be ready to retire, companies these days seem ready to retire them, probably for financial reasons.

     In your opinion, what are the benefits of retaining these folks and what can this group do to increase their value to their organization?

Judy in Michigan

 

 

Dear Judy,

I prefer to hire people over 40. In 1988, I bought a small spinoff of a Nashville company named Datamarketing Network. I was 24, highly ambitious, and immediately expanded into Memphis. There I met Mr. Willard, who owned a very successful business for 20 years, and was a self-made millionaire.

          He told me that because employee turnover is the biggest business expense, he hired more mature and more stable employees.

          I ignored his advice and hired only young Turks who were hungry and full of energy. None of them stuck around for very long, and I paid the price.

           I finally took Mr. Willard's advice, and began placing a higher priority on hiring people who'd still be there in five years, than people who would set the world one day, and be gone the next. By age 37, I had become a millionaire myself, and it was in  large part thanks to Mr. Willard's advice. (He didn't take my advice to kick his two-pack-a-day smoking habit, so he wasn't around for me to thank).

            As far as increasing one's value, it's is no different for any age. I suggest that every company have their employees - of all ages - watch our video training program How to Be the Employee Your Company Can't Live Without: 18 Ways to Become Indispensable

(click here to see it).

        Thanks for your question.

Glenn In Nashville

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Mike Coleman, one of my Google Adwords students, said the strangest thing last week.

 

He told me I’m the most “Time Defensive” person he knows.

 

When people describe you as “defensive”, it’s usually not a compliment. But it was in this case, because Mike listened to my time management CD, and understands why I teach everyone to jealously guard their time from the time leeches that will suck it away.

 

   

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Most members of my Gold Inner Circle are successful business owners and managers. While they come from different backgrounds, I've noticed a strong commonality. The more successful they are, the more Time Defensive they are.

 

(Confession: I'm stealing Mike's new term).

 

So as we enter this New Year, I have a question for you.

 

Which of these statements would people be more likely to make about YOU?

A. You're very Time Defensive. You use great discrepancy in deciding who gets a piece of your time, and set clear limits when you give some of it away.

 

B. You're  a “Time Tramp” who gives your time away to anybody who wants it, without setting limits, and then never have enough time to do the things you need to do.

While it’s true that time is money, there’s one HUGE difference. You know how much money you have left to spend (unless you’re in Congress).

 

But none of us knows how much time we have left. Look at some of the people who ran out of time in 2009:

 

 

Billy Mays
Ed McMahon
Farrah Fawcett
Jim Rohn*
Michael Jackson
Patrick Swayze
Paul Harvey
Steve McNair
Walter Cronkite

 

 

Will your name be on this list in 2010?

 

Unfortunately, you can’t possibly know – or control – whether it is. I was reminded of this yesterday when my 19-year-old nephew in Columbus, Georgia, was T-boned while driving his mom’s minivan. (He’s okay, but I love that kid and it shook me up).

 

Your time is the one area of your life where you should be as tightfisted, guarded, and downright stingy as you can possibly be.

 

You should defend your time against people and things that’ll waste it, just as vigorously as you’d defend your kids from a child molester, or your Social Security number from an identity thief.

 

Last week I asked for your 2010 New Year’s Resolutions. If you haven’t made any yet,
here’s a good one.

 

“I will be more Time Defensive in 2010

than I’ve ever been”.

 

 

To Making This the Best Year of Your Life,

Glenn Shepard

 

 

 

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*For those folks who may not know the name Jim Rohn, he was a legend in my industry, and was partly responsible for my success. He launched the careers of many speakers, including Mark Victor Hansen and Jack Canfield (authors of Chicken Soup for the Soul), Tony Robbins, and Brian Tracy. Mark was the first person to volunteer to help with the best seller campaign for my sixth book, How to Be the Employee Your Company Can't Live Without. With his help, it went on to become my first #1 best seller in the U.S., and was later translated into five other languages by the New York publisher. Losing Jim Rohn the same year I lost the man who had the most influence on my career - Paul Harvey - made last year a sad one that really reminded me of how important it is to make every minute count.

 

 

 

 

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